The former local basketball guru was convicted of some very serious charges yesterday. He will likely be put away for a long time. I flinch every time I hear his name these days because he’s a guy with so much potential who came so far and who actually did help so many young basketball players in the Portland area.
But what he did to young girls in his care was reprehensible. And he did it over and over. It’s really impossible to understand or rationalize his particular degree of insanity.
I’ve been acquainted with him since he was a young prodigy playing basketball at Benson High School. He disappeared for a while before turning up as a senior at McLaren, leading that institution to a small-school state championship. So many times, I thought he had his path straightened out and was heading for a productive life.
He certainly always said he was.
I remember the first time I saw him as an adult, at the girls basketball state tournament in the Chiles Center. He was well dressed and excited. He handed me a business card with his company name, “Triple Threat,” on it and explained how he was making money helping kids out with private lessons. At the time, it was an interesting concept that hadn’t caught on to the extent it has nowdays.
But Avery was smart enough to be among the first to recognize how much money wealthy — or even not-so-wealthy — parents were willing to spend to help their children get better in sports. And over the years, Avery made an awful lot of money doing just that.
Lest anyone think that Avery worked only with girls, that’s incorrect. At one time, he had a thriving business with boys and girls that featured travel teams, individual instruction, clinics and his personal appearances at big-time college camps during the summer.
And I can tell you that there are few local players who made it into the NBA over the last several years who didn’t, at one time, work out with Avery and proclaim him a big help in their development. I remember once an NBA head coach telling me he thought Avery was one of the best developmental coaches anywhere.
But he eventually so totally self-destructed that he became a living symbol of why parents need to investigate the people working closely with their children. I hate that it’s come to that, by the way. There are so many great people out there working with kids, trying earnestly to help them with their sports and their lives — and we’ve reached the point where all of them now operate under a cloud of doubt and suspicion because of the actions of people such as Howard Avery.
But that’s the world we live in. And please, if you’ve learned anything at all from watching Howard Avery’s sad life play out on a public stage, make sure you understand the importance of knowing the adults who are mentoring your children. Take nothing for granted. Don’t totally trust your instincts — the charm of Avery hid a dark side that turned out to be cunning and successful.
In the end, I’m afraid Avery’s biggest contribution to our local basketball culture will be only as a chilling warning sign.
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